I thought it would be handy to stick a general list of event/exchange Likes and DNWs on my page so that I can either link to it directly or just pull from here when I need to.
Likes
- Genres:
- Hurt/Comfort (physical or emotional)
- Whump
- Light Fluff/Slice of Life
- Action
- Drama
- Casefic
- Angst (with or without happy ending)
- Genfic
- Wingfic
- Genderswaps | Rule 63 | Trans Characters | Queer Characters & Identities (including ace/grey/demi and poly)
- Trust | Relationships | Friendships
- Sharing space with one another | Casual intimacy (romantic or platonic) | Clothes sharing
- Sparring | Training | Learning New Skills | Mentor/Mentee relationships
- Rescue Missions
- Competent female characters
- Twist endings | Unreliable narrators
- Canon Universe | Worldbuilding to add to Canon
- Supernatural AU (Vampires, Werewolves, Magic)
- Grooming | Helping with haircuts | Head petting
- Smut specific:
- Dom/Sub Dynamics (healthy) | Collaring | 24/7 D/S Relationships | Switches
- Bondage | Shibari
- Vocal consent
- Joy from pleasuring partner
- Fun sex | Sex for stress relief
- Casual sex turns to real feelings for one another
- Consensual Hair Pulling | Scratching | Biting
Extremely Specific Likes pulled from freeform exchanges
- Hurt/Comfort:
- Character doesn't care about own well-being
- Character Is Hurt By A Human And Then Comforted By A Monster
- Character overuses magic/powers/etc. to protect a loved one
- Character Doesn't Expect Tenderness But Gets It Anyway
- Vampires/Werewolves/Supernatural:
- Human feeds dying vampire even though it's dangerous; big trust moment; no one dies
- Sire Bond
- Shapeshifter AU - more than just werewolves (big cats - birds - platypus - etc)
- Biting kink combined with vampires or other supernatural creatures
- Sexy blood drinking
- Alliance Is Sealed with Blood Drinking
- Sex while a character is in their animal/supernatural form
- Pining:
- Character A distances themself from Character B to try and get over them
- Character A doesn't want to ruin Character B's relationship with another character
- Character A is too proud to recognize they're pining for B
- Character A Pines For Character B Not Realizing It's Requited
- Character A pining silently so Characters B & C won't feel guilty for not returning their affections
- Character C Pines For Characters A & B Who Are Together - Leads to Polyamory
- A pines for B after B refuses to kill A when they ought to
- Life Threatening Situation Prompts Confession of Feelings
- A pines for B while B swears fealty to A
- Character A suddenly realizes that they've been pining for B and didn't know it
- Character A pines for Character B who thinks they're too old for Character A
- Everyone Thinks They Hate Each Other - They're Pining
- Accepting that your love will never be returned (and staying with them anyway)
- Character A incorrectly assumes that Character B knows that A is pining for them
- A is too repressed to realize their feelings for B are not platonic
- Wingfic:
- Wing Jewellery and Decorations
- Worldbuilding About Wings In Society
- Winged Character Needs A Hug But Non-Winged Characters Are Afraid Of Hurting Their Wings
- Wrapping Wings Around One Another For Warmth
- Wingless A fascinated by B's wings
- A Section I'm Just Going to Call Kinks:
- D/S - Muzzle Kink
- D/S - 24/7 Collaring
- D/A - Collar removed by wrong person; collared character goes feral until calmed by master
- D/S - A collars B for nonsexual reasons; A and/or B is turned on by it anyway
- Knifeplay
- Possessiveness: "mine"
- Loyalty Kink: Call off your dog
- Loyalty Kink: Declaring Oneself Someone Else's Weapon
- Things that don't have a bucket yet:
- Character who is normally cold and distant breaks down when given love and encouragement
- Formulaic hierarchical stuff like saluting or kneeling but FELT SO DEEPLY AND SINCERELY
- Genderswap one or multiple characters to make a ship into femslash
- Villain pulls "we are alike you and I"; hero realizes they have a point
- Whump - Character hiding illness/injury collapses
- Unreliable narrator was secretly the bad guy all along
- Character A tilting character B's chin up with the tip of a sword after beating them in a fight
- A rescues B from trouble B knowingly walked into (B thought they could handle it on their own)
- A/B Kick The Asses Of Bad Guys Who Attack During Their Date Then Go Back To Having A Good Time
- Antagonist Surprises With Honorable Behavior
- Carried to bed by partner
- Character A does morally questionable things to save B; doesn't think B will forgive them
- Character A lost character B's trust; trying desperately to get it back
- Character A Tries to Physically Fight Character B but B Refuses to Hurt Them
- Character can't sleep unless they're wearing a collar
- Character is non-binary; receives love and support
- Character is rescued and comforted
- Characters don't realize they're in a relationship but everyone else can see it
- Characters Exiled Together
- Corrupting the hero with compelling moral arguments (and backing them up with dubcon sex)
- Drunken Confessions
- Enemies to Lovers - A comes to care deeply for B and tries to get B to trust and believe in them
- Enemies to Lovers - A has conflicting feelings while B tenderly treats their injuries
- Helping Someone Undress for Practicality's Sake (Mostly)
- I Hate You More Than Anything But Can't Live Without You
- Love Confessions - A thinks they're about to die and voices their feelings for B;but oops A survives
- Passionate first kiss after near-death experience
- Stranded on a Hostile Planet Together
- They thought no one was coming; got rescued by unexpected person
- Trapped and isolated while something/one is out to get them
- Trapped in a spaceship escape pod together
- Unexpected rescue followed by tenderly patching up wounds for them
DNWs
It goes without saying though that if I do have a prompt that has explicitly asked for one of these then it's not a DNW in that instance. (i.e. As a general rule I don't like kidfic, but for a fandom like Among Us I like the Crewmate & Mini Crewmate dynamic for example)
Any Fandom
- Pregnancy fic
- Unrequested Kidfic
- Sexual Violence
- Rape/Non-Con (I can deal with certain levels of dub con but I'll usually specify that in detail in a prompt)
- Sex between characters <16 years old
- Unrequested Hard Kink (some fandoms I do enjoy hard kinks with my ships)
- Specific Hard Kink:
- Scat/Watersports
- Period Sex
- Vore
- Breeding Kink (even if it doesn't end up with a pregnancy)
- Extreme Feederism incl. weight gain or overfeeding
- Ageplay/DDLG
- A/B/O
- Unrequested Permanent Character Death
- Self-Harm
- Excessive Gore
- Cheating & Infidelity
- Racism/Sexism/Homophobia/Biphobia/Any form of bigotry
- Second Person POV
- Character x Reader/You
- Character/Ship Bashing
Fandom-Specific
- Divergent:
- Four/Tris
- "No War"/"No Consequences" - I am pretty flexible on this, but overall I do like some kind of logic of how the canon events didn't devolve into chaos.
- Timid Tris. I'd rather her be tougher than canon than wimpier.
- Sex "fixes" Tris' fear of intimacy
- Avatar: The Last Airbender
- Aang/Katara
- Aang/Katara/Zuko
- Detroit: Become Human
- Infantilizing Connor/Childish Connor. He's supposed to be an adult. He can be bewildered/confused sometimes, yes, but overall he's perfectly functional.
- Hank Anderson/Connor RK-800
- Worst-Ending